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Idag har jag verkligen tänkt på det här med bloggar, och hur det måste funka för vissa - att de kan måla upp ett helt drömliv och publicera det så att folk ska tro att det är såsom de säger.
Det är så jävla obehagligt sorgligt på två sätt. För det första, hur patetisk är man om man måste hitta på ett alternativt liv för att ens känna sig intressant. Skriva ihop historier så att man kan låtsas att det är sanna och att man inte lever ett helt tomt liv där ingenting händer och man aldrig är attraktiv för någon.
För det andra tycker jag att det är sjukt obehagligt att folk går på allt de läser på nätet. Att det är så självklart att folk är som de utger sig att vara, träffar alla de säger sig träffa, osv att folk inte ifrågasätter anonyma bloggare utan bara sväljer allt med hull och hår.
Jag fattar att vissa människor är ensamma eller kanske inte lever det liv de önskar att de gjorde eller gjorde när de var yngre. Men jag tycker det är så jävla lame att låtsas som att de fortfarande gör det. Jag blir nästan provocerad. Vad tycker ni?
translation: i'm just saying how lame it is to pretend you're someone you're not on the internet. and how craze that people belive everything they read. i've been thinking about that a lot today. why people do it and how pathetic they must feel
I have no patience today with people who get offended when they are busted. Hypocritical, much? With your life that's so fabulous we don't know who you are and your boyfriend so famous your "clues" don't point to anyone who exists?
SvaraRaderaActually, I'm curious too - why exactly do you have to be so secretive about him? I mean, if he isn't married like you say (that American blog chicky does seem a bit bonkers) then what's the big deal? If you're going out, won't we see pap pictures of you eventually?
SvaraRaderaWhy exactly do famous people do the whole cloak and dagger thing about relationships? I'm not saying to do an OK spread about the details of your first shag or whatever, but normal people admit who they are going out with, I can't help think that when it's all deny and hide and stuff that maybe people want attention without admitting it. Sorry, not meaning to go on and not meaning to offend, just really curious.
(OK is a celeb magazine in the UK, don't know if you'll have heard of it)
SvaraRaderaWhy should Frida prove anything to you? She is happy and in love why would she care what you think? She doesn't have to prove anything to anybody!
SvaraRaderaI didn't say she wasn't! I was just asking why it's a secret! Or, if it's such a secret why post about it at all?
SvaraRaderaI wasn't really talking to you. This other person who says Mr Handsome doesn't exist needs to have a look at her own life!
SvaraRaderaIf she doesn't need to prove anything why is she going on about other people living fake lives on the internet??? Maybe she needs to look at HER OWN life?
SvaraRaderaShe doesn't really have time actually, she's too busy out living it unlike some people! She writes this blog to remember what's happening in her life right now and share it with people who might like the same kind of fashion etc as she does. She doesn't have to prove anything to anyone - especially not strange people like you.
SvaraRaderaOh come on there is no need to fight! I didn't mean to start anything with my questions, I'm just curious, sorry! Let's all sit down and have a nice cup of tea, okay?
SvaraRaderaI don't need tea thanks, just for crazy people to stop attacking my friend.
SvaraRaderaWhy don't you just tell us and then no one can say anything?
SvaraRaderaWho started attacking who?
SvaraRaderaEftersom alla postar anonymt antar jag att HON har skickat hit dem. thanks Anna for being a real friend sticking up for me!!. just because i don't spend EVERY SECOND by the computer as some people do, doesn't mean its okay to attack me on my own blog?!?!
SvaraRaderaHey - I just came across this blog - whats going on here? This is so funny reading one anonymous blogger shouting at another! I think you guys should definitely have a nice cup of tea and r-e-l-a-x a bit!!!
SvaraRadera"anonym" - if you are that crazy american, you can just post your name. i know your blog now, and it's not really hard to find out who you are from there.
SvaraRaderato sarah- that's one reason i'm ALWAYS anonymous online. and NO I can't say who it is. it would be jeopardy with both my private life AND HIS...
Why do people keep going on about tea?
SvaraRaderaCrazy things happening on your blog Frida! Jealousy does bad things to people.
SvaraRaderaJealousy? Riiiiiiiggghhhtttt
SvaraRaderaHaha, Anna - skoja inte!
SvaraRaderaand yes, skip the tea. i'm actually being serious in what i'm writing. this is one of my more important blogg posts
Jeopardize you how? Sorry I'm think but I don't really get what's such a big deal if he's single and you're single? Isn't that what people do??
SvaraRaderaDon't listen to crazy jealous fangirls Frida, you have every right to your privacy, I really enjoy reading your blog, thanks for sharing!!
SvaraRaderaThick I meant! Sorry I'm being thick I'm just trying to understand what's going on here!! I think I will take that cup of tea Shrl!
SvaraRaderaWell just to jump in again - tea! Tea makes everything better so don't underestimate its' powers but seriously you guys should just calm down a bit. Bloggs are written for amusement for the readers, i think you're all over reacting a bit really.
SvaraRadera"One of my more important blogg posts"...
SvaraRaderaNothing like the self awareness of the pseudo-famous!
Pictures or it didn't happen! Sorry, I'm not buying you have a real reason to keep it so secret unless there's something freaky going on. Not saying it is that blogger's husband, but I don't get it otherwise. Sorry.
SvaraRaderaAnonym - or can i call you ohiogirl?
SvaraRaderayeah, i don't know if you know what "Important" means, but translated to swedish it means that it is worth taking notice of. maybe you haven't come across that a lot.
this is my blog. I have decided (and promised) to be anonymous at all times. So yes, sarah - i agree with what you're saying, as we are both single there's no problem. BUT. firstly i always keep my promises (and i promised him and all my friends to keep identities hidden on the internet).
there are a lot of "pseudo-famous" people who use their blogs as a way to brand themselves to the market. a lot of times they have to put on a persona that can actually harm their career instead. i'm sure you know examples!
i'm not a sellout like that. my life is my life, my job is my job and my blog is MY blog ;)
Anonym #2 (it's so much easier when people post their names!)
SvaraRaderaas i said - i can't do pictures. but your argument is so thin! don't you know that "a picture says more than a thousand lies" :)
You tell them Frida! If that is your real name ;-) It's YOUR blog to do whatever you want on and I'm just happy I get to read it!!
SvaraRadera*sitting here with popcorn*
SvaraRaderai don't have a picture of us two to post here. but if i did, it would probably look kinda like this:
SvaraRaderahttp://t3.gstatic.com/images?q=tbn:ANd9GcRWbv6vdLNlZGVfdthHOiblCrdyUrcB_2tuWcYFBByLwDYPRzpJlg&t=1
That is officially hilarious. I don't have a picture but if I did...
SvaraRaderaYeah. I don't have a picture of me and Alexander Skarsgard, but if I did, it would look like this:
http://www.buzzfeed.com/causticcamp/this-is-what-it-looks-like-when-evan-rachel-wood-a-pjy
Or maybe like this:
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=d2smz_1L2_0
(except for the throwing off a balcony part because he wouldn't do that to me)
So I guess we're even.
haha, yeeeah... but if you're thinking of someone in your "real" life, i'm just saying, don't play with fire.
SvaraRaderaI think a person should have the right to keep things "private"...even on a public blog! But as a total outsider....I can't but hope it all comes out at some point!
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